What Speaking in Front of Hundreds of People Taught Me About Connection

Hi Leaders!

I just got back from speaking at a conference, and let me tell you—preparation only gets you so far. The real magic? Adapting. Whether you're commanding a stage in front of hundreds or having a one-on-one conversation, your ability to read the room, pivot, and connect is what makes the difference.

Standing in front of that crowd, you realize fast that connection isn’t automatic, it’s intentional. Some people want data and strategy. Others want stories and inspiration. And then there are those moments when someone comes up afterward and says, “You said exactly what I needed to hear.” That’s not magic. That’s the science of connection at work.

And here’s the thing, leadership is no different. Whether you’re leading a team of five or presenting to a room of 500, your ability to adapt your style to meet people where they are isn’t just a skill. Let’s dive into how to automatically connect with anyone, starting with the one thing most leaders overlook...